Never put more into a relationship More than you put to yourself untill yourself becomes himself and himself becomes herself, trust you got the information right?
You hold them your faithfulness and your attention but your destiny should be watered every seconds by yourself.
anyway you find yourself, strive to be a sources to yourself and to your partner and not a liability.
Don't just pray for a relationship, work to become a woman that a responsible man will love to sacrifice everything to stay with forever"because of your productive mind.
A beautiful face and nice shape is good but don't forget they're everywhere, many are praying to be in a relationship just as you are praying too.But the responsible ones are not only looking for a beautiful face and nice shape because they have seen many, they are looking for a beautiful soul that will remain beautiful under rain and sunshine.
Your beautiful face and nice shape will bring them but your beautiful soul will keep him.
When you’ve grown to have emotional understanding, the language of love changes.
You need mental maturity wise to be able to maintain and understand relationship languages
Marriage does not have formula but it has principles.
Marriage principles are: Forgive ahead, don't compare her with anyone else, appreciate her, get her gifts no matter how small and support her vision. Above all( maintain your responsibilities(forth play -bed")don't use attention to joke with her(vice versa).
Why marriage doesn't have formula is because women doesn't have one character as a being, the face that smile with you few minutes ago can get hurt by your romantic touch within a twinkling of an eyes, moreover that doesn't make her an ingrate rather it's their nature and they can't help.
All you need as a man is to accept her mood at that moment and play along with her.
Don't waste your time trying to learn marriage formula's rather try to master marriage principles.
When you find yourself in an organisation always try to be current and grow with the organisation, don't allow yourself to be outdated while the organisation maintains current on daily basis because it will get to a certain point that your knowledge will become irrelevant to the growth of the organisation and you'll be left behind while they hire another person with a current knowledge of organisation growth to occupy the office that you have built for many years with them.
Have you ever wondered why some men doesn't really break down because of a broken relationship after many years with a particular person?( Men does not become a liability to themselves because they are in a relationship, they work, invest on their self and equally grow with the relationship.but some ladies automatically becomes a liability to themselves once they are tied down with a relationship promises that can crash at anytime.
don't allow your man to be the only source even right from the relationship stage try to be a source as well.
Once you are matured and ready to engage yourself with someone into relationship try to define your meeting point and have a positive agreement that will be favourable to both of you because time wait for nobody, most especially you as a lady, if any guy asked you out, try to know why he wants to identify with you and not what he present before you at that moment, if he come up with marriage and you love him, let him know that long time relationship without a positive steps is not acceptable, of course as a lady you need to understand that time doesn't really wait for you. Don't let any man to keep you waiting once you're matured for long, to make his millions before coming to marry you, it's advisable to be the one that will keep him waiting if there's any need for that than him keeping you waiting.
When you are the one that keeps him waiting you will understand time and season of your nature(body changes) than him keeping you waiting, cause some men can only understand feelings and bank figure status without knowing you're going out of sweet 16 to sweet 32 that he may not love to marry again once he see another sweet 16 with figure eight.
When you focus more on the weather before you plant, you'll end up not having anything to heavest when others are harvesting.
Start from somewhere with the one that's ready to plant with you,water each other,grow together and not that you're not yet ready to plant.
hey! Listen!, then that you'll think you're fully ready to plant,
Strength and age may not allow you to see reasonable thing to plant with.
Any partner that is pushing you to do what is against nature, to prove how much you love him or her doesn't love you, such person has plan B, if you succeed they will celebrate with you but if nature use your ignorant against you, they will deny knowing you.
Be wise not to destroy yourself while trying to prove what does not have prove in words but in action before an ungrateful pretender.
Every woman has a voice but your contribution to your man's vision gives it volume and commands respect naturally without demanding for it.
If you wait untill you're ready.
If you wait untill you find the perfect one.
You'll wait untill you miss it all.
As a young man, strive to stay with one, build with her, for there's no perfect one out there.
If you bring value to your relationship, you will be valued and treated with some much respect.
No man that truly want to marry you will accept to remain with someone that will become a future liability to him.
Don't over demands from your partner, learn how to contribute to his growth in life and he'll forever be grateful meeting you.
When you're industrious as a lady, any guy that came in contact with you will never want to leave you no matter what happened if the opportunity to remain with you is giving to him.
The only guy that will never encourage you to engage yourself into something profiting is the one that doesn't have future plans with you.
Don't allow a guy to over pamper you not to allow you to have your own source of income, because you'll regret not invest on yourself when the reality hit you.
When a lady refuse to let you in with her clear eyes, it doesn't mean she hate you but because she value and respect her dignity (womanhood).
Hey! Don't ever use your position to disobey her policy even if the only option she has is to let you in to get out of her predicament.
Use that your position to respect her dignity even more and solve her problem with a clean heart, because Garrison, water and salt served in a pure heart is sweeter than Garrison, fish, milk, honey and chilled water served out of pain.
Sometimes, your guys will advise you wrongly to leave your girl, that she is not up to your standard, not that they love you but because they can't have her while you're still with her.
Be careful of what your friends called standard, you can never find anyone that is up to standard, your standard can never be someone else standard because you're not perfect.
Sometimes they don't want to appear as the devil that wants to destroy your relationship with her because they want to appear as an angel that will bring joy into her life.
Be wise again.
If you're valued and respected , know it that the best person has found you and not the perfect person.
Cause nothing perfect can exist in this world except the best thing that has been existing.
The one that, love,trust,value and respect you is the best thing that has been existing.
Father remains a father, but I don't really think Beating will calm a woman down unless she decided to calm down on her own, every woman has a language she understands, just like a figer of a slim lady has the ability to push a giant man down on bed without struggling, is the same way your tongue and attitude as a husband has the ability to control your wife to be submissive, once you as a submissive receiver knows her weak language.
Sometimes we must be careful from the kind of information we receive from those ahead of us, because what works for them may destroy you. One of the thing we young men should try to avoid, if we truly want to enjoy our relationship with an industrious lady" is phone connection.
If she doesn't pick your call immediately when you called, don't panic, or suspect her ,if truly you trust her with your heart. she'll definitely call once you're part of her life, I guess you get that phrase correctly, we're guilty of that😭.
Love is responsibility and management that grows with principal.
1).A guy that truly love you will never stop believing in you, because true love comes with no reason to give up.
2).True love sees the best in you that others can never see.
3).True love doesn't compare you to others because your type can never exist again on Earth.
4).True love plans with you and sees your past as his present glory and future happiness.
5).True love sees all you failed attempt as things that was orchestrated for his own glory to manifest and not that you were not perfect.
6).True love knows that every failed attempt is the best way to meet ur own angel, if the righteous fall 7 times they shall raise again.
7).True love plays a role as a father, husband, mentor and lord " that will always welcome his children with love when they failed to meet up with the Best position in school and encourage them in love to work hard to perfect all their papers next section.
8).True love is not perfect but is the best.
As a young man, your biggest breakthrough comes immediately you meet a lady that's mentally productive.
If you've one, please listen to her contribution, she is your biggest lawyer, doctor and engineer in your life, carrying her along will make your world colourful.
Giving your wife all the material things in life without attention,is like covering a pig with a white garment to prove the neatness of your pig before the society.
It's good to give your wife the best material things in life but don't deny her the most precious gift everyone is hope for (attention) that is where the true happiness and fulfillment lies on.
One of the best thing you can do for your children as a young man is to marry a beautiful and wise lady for them as a mother, because the brightness of every child starts from the hand that feeds him or her.
A good wife is the quality of the family.
Things are happening in our world today, that our women needs to be more focus than being a full house wife. Before you moved in with a man as your husband try to have an agreement with him that you must have your own business no matter how small it will be, if he talks about who will take care of the family let him know that you'll do that with all happiness. What matters is to be time conscious, you open your business early and equally close early to meet up with House chores.
When you marry a billionaire, try to step up to become a millionaire in your own business, anything can happen tomorrow and you will start all over again alone in life without compensation, but if you've your own business the pains will not be that much.
.. it's better to continue from where you were than to step down and start up again as a mother of children, the journey will not be that easy, I've seen women that was leaving well with their husband but immediately the man changed address to a land of no return, to meet up with three square meals a day becomes an issue, some couldn't meet up with their house bills, some went into an unpleasant activities because they were lability to themself by not working out things when their husband was with them,Some their children dropped out of school and many more.
Try to be a builder of wealth in your husband's house than welcoming the idea of becoming a full-time consumer, try to be a woman that will not always depend on her husband before she get things for her children, to yourself and to your husband. Try to be a woman that will have a landed properties if you've the opportunity than wearing the best clothes in town because the owner of tomorrow's pregnancy is "Mr mystery".
It's true that your husband riches is yours but try to have your business through the help of your responsible husband.
Try to be a woman that will always suprise her husband with a gift of achievement than always waiting for a surprise from the husband.
You're born to be a solution to your generation than becoming a liability to your generation.
Men! Be the kind of a man that will help his wife to become an archiver, support her dreams for the sake of the future events, don't limit her with the weekly maintenance money you're giving to her, open a business for her and still look after her cause she came out of you, in strength and in endurance you're more experienced than her no matter the credentials.
Men👉don't limit your wife with the weekly maintenance money you are giving to her, set up a good business for her and watch her grow along with you for the sake of the future. she is a seed planted in your hand, water her to grow to become a solution to her generation and not to be a liability to her generations.
Behind the beauty of a strange woman lies a true-color that will destroy you in the future.
Support your wife to become great in the society and not just create a kitchen.
For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh.
Ephesians 5:31.
Your family is your next of kin when you're not married and you're expected to try as much as possible to fix them up if you're financial stable then before marriage but that doesn't mean you'll stop caring for them because you're married but you'll not always be available for them to access once married and as a married man your first attention automatically belongs to your wife, everything about you becomes her own automatically.
Immediately you're legally married, your partner becomes your first citizen and your first citizen is expected to be your next of kin and not the second or third citizen.
Before you marry as a man try to understand roles and principles on how to fix your marriage outside your biological home.
Don't let an external body to tell you where your wife belong and where she doesn't belong to.
Love your wife, love your mother, love your father, love your siblings and love your in-laws but don't give anyone opportunity to make your wife appear as a stranger in your life and in your biological home.
Your wife well-being is your glory and not how you appear before others and your well-being is your wife glory and not how she appear before others.If you can not discover the imperfect side of her now that you have nothing, please don't discover any imperfect side of her when you have something, a perfect girl with you in suffering should never become an imperfect girl before you in riches, remember that a cry of a humble, faithful and innocent girl before God because of you means a call for avengers.
Advice yourself not to bring course upon your generations.
Being with someone that your spirit and soul love is the best thing that can happen to anyone on Earth.
No matter what you've experienced in life as a lady, stand up,dress up and put up a Smiling face to heal your world. Always remember that you are a life sustainer(incubator),,The world can never get better without you as a woman, your present changes environment and breaks the bones of the mighty, gives hope to the hopeless and makes a man of a bittered heart to regain sweetness without stress.
Women! Don't let anyone make you feel like there's no hope again because you're a life sustain and hope giver, love yourself and celebrate yourself in bigger ways than expected from those that doesn't know your impact on the surfaces of the earth.
Hey! Young men "don't use a women's heart for fun when you're not ready to carry responsibility, cuz you may not be able to pay the damages in time to come, a broken heart can never be fixed by unstable spirit.
Fear and respect the tears of a woman.
Genuine love goes to any length to save
and to any height to reach out because perfect love cast out fear.
When you love your woman, she will make your mind strong and empower you to overcome fears through the power of undeniable responsibilities.
If you must succeed as a man in life,you must genuinely love and empower your woman to be empowered through the well-being of your children, cause the first culture of every child is mother tongue.
Indeed you can’t be with your lover every minutes because of the nature of your work but there is something you can do that will always represent your present around your partner each time you're off to work. Love is expected to be new every morning through the help of your incomparable smile on your face before your partner, a surprise gift that you bought for him or her, we all deserves a gift from our partner not only on celebration period because everyday is expected to be each other's birthday and Valentine.
Your romantic love text messages and calls helps a lot in reminding them how beautiful and handsome they're, it makes them to feel your present and miss you and wish to be around you immediately. It grows their feelings towards you and it takes their attention away from what doesn't belong to them.
Don't only expect your partner to be the one buying gift, sending romantic message and many more, every human being that has breath is expecting a caring heart.
Your partner needs your attention the way you need your both sight.
When a guy respect you and Value you as a lady he will understand that little things matters so much to you as a woman. Treat every woman that comes your way they way you wish your mother should be treated in your absent.
Your angel comes late to disorganised everything you have with other Angel that you thought is your strength and everything, most times, they'll appear without those quality you want from other gender but they'll always have something special that will cause you sleepless night until you leave the other angel that appears before your destined angel to appreciate the one that will understand your spirit language, once you disappoint the first arrived angel that belongs to someone else ,you will discover that all you want from other gender is within your destined angel but can only be seen by the one that has the rightful key, which is you.
You must be sensitive to observe that feelings,it will be very hard to notice it because the angel that came before your destined angel will equally appear to be a healer and a companion.
Three people's pray that works like magic.
The prayer of your mother that you always remember when things are going well with you and not when things aren't going as you planned.
The prayer of your father that you honour with your Riches and with your words.
The prayer of the girl you sincerely love without the mind of dumping her in the future if God elevate you beyond your imagination.
She has the power to make you and power to destroy you.
Don't pretend loving someone when things is not going well with you and reject the person when nature turns your own table of gold and silver.
We're having many broken homes In this our present-day generation than the days of our grandparents because some of the youths are only prepared for wedding and not marriage.
Wedding is an open filed celebration for two individuals to be recognised as husband and wife but marriage is two individuals coming together as one to face the reality where everything hidden will be made manifest before two matured persons with different ideas of life to grow together and raise another generation.
Hey! Before you say I do" check yourself very well to know" if you're truly ready to face the reality with someone that has " likes and dislikes.
Marriage comes with celebration and conflicts and not like wedding that only come with celebration.
If you want to build a beautiful home with your partner, spend more time in preparing for marriage than wedding.
(myopinionIf"
If a guy is too good to you while applying to become your one and only in life"soulmate" sis try to find out when last he sent money and other things to his mum, dad and his younger ones because charity begins at home. If he find it difficult to care for his family, then consider it that once you become full-time member of his family his caring mind will be shifted to someone else.
A Caring husband to be, must has to be a caring son to his mother, Father and a caring brother to his brothers and sisters.
You got hurt by someone you shared everything with and still it seems you're not good enough to him, you tried everything yet he still have many reasons to give up on you,
Hey! don't worry he only came to use you as an experiment to know what feelings and attention is all about, because "True love is more than a feeling, a sensation, something you just say to please. True love is the sincere desire for the wellbeing of someone else. True love is kind and patient.It is not jealous, it doesn't brag, and it's not proud but humble to accept and forgive. True love is not rude or selfish, and it cannot be made angry easily. It doesn't remember wrongs done against it, true love is not happy when others do wrong, but it is always happy with the truth, true love never gives up on you. It never stops trusting, never loses hope, and never quits.
If he quits, consider him as an old tenant that could not meet up with his bills in your compound and has to relocate to another compound that he can afford the bills.
Cheers when they left because you belongs to a higher class.
Hey! Young Man always remember that every Roadside sidechick will roast your destiny and dry you up, but the wife of your youth will build your destiny, and Stand by you if eventually Mr somebody becomes Mr nobody.
Don't compare her, don't cheat on her with anyone, make her to see you as a friend and husband she can run to in her distress.
Knowing that the upper and downside of a Fair Lady is not different from that of a black lady will save you from lies and evil secret done in a hidden place in a way to hurt your partner not knowing you are punishing yourself, because a free conscious fear no evil.
Save your home by being faithful to your partner.
Meeting your soulmate is one of the most fulfilling feeling in the world as an adult, it promote happiness and keeps your dreams alive, everything they do effects you in ways you never dreamed possible, it's for life.the strenght of the love is so overwhelming and extremely blissful,it comes with rain and sunshine. Love is beautiful with the one that knows the value.
#Myopinionagain
If a guy that claimed to love you, cannot create out time to visit you first, to me it means he's not ready for matured relationship, and such person will never have time to listen to you when you need him the most. Someone's atutide towards relationship tells much what the person will become tomorrow once married.
Someone that doesn't respect strangers can never respect you when you moved in to his house, an adage said charity begins at home.
Someone that doesn't regard those around him will never regard your feelings once you moved in to his house.
Someone that finds it difficult to get you something even while dating we never mind allowing you to carry the whole family responsibility once married, pig remains a pig no matter how beautiful the environment is.
Someone that's caring but doesn't adjust his single lifestyle once dating we never mind hurting you with his old lifestyle thinking you are pleased with such social life once married. reject what you don't like before marrying him because you cannot change a man's character once married. Read again.
Seriousness of a guy towards you is justify by his ability to prove his love through work an action and not spoken words that cannot be seen.
A guy that made up his mind to leave you because you refused him sex or being the first to visit him has never come to stay in your life, a wise teacher uses dictation to know few of his brilliant students in class and not the fastest note writer.
A guy that's always comparing you with his ex will cheat on you if there is an opportunity to meet his ex again, someone's confession is more of his meditation than his view.
If Daddy blessing can maintain calmness when his wife did what's wrong, as he always turn to a new born baby when a soldier that's not up to his son slap him and still ask for Mercy from the soldier, I think his marriage will become as bread and butter.(correct her in love )
And if mummy blessing can respect her husband and keep his rules the way she value and respect her spiritual leader, her husband will never have the mind to turn his back against her.( Respect your husband above all because he is your lord).
Do you know who I am, doesn't work in marriage, it works outside your marriage.2 John 1:6 - "This is love, that we walk according to His (God's) Commandments. This is the Commandment, that as you have heard from the beginning, you should walk in it."
To walk according to God's Commandments means to obey God's Law.
Any relationship without a law will end up misbehaving like a kingdom without laws.
If he truly love you, your laws will become as romantic as he confessed that your body is to him.
Eg. Dear I love you but no sex before marriage.
Eg. Dear I love you but no cheating on each because everything about me belongs to you once you do all the necessary things.
And many more.
His responses to that will tell you part of his mindset of coming your way.
Tho he may ask you some question as a man.
Eg. Are you a virgin? Of course! if you're not let him know because your past has nothing to do with your law if the person truly love you.
And promise to remain faithful as he maintains your laws.
Love is beautiful when both of your respect each others feelings (law's).
No matter how you look like,there's someone out there who'll love you just the way you are. Don't compromise your personality to meet up their standard. Who will love you, will love you for who you are and not for who they thought you're. Being loved for who you are is better than being loved for who they thought you are.
Don't pretend to be Cardi B, Rihanna, Cynthia than Amaka that you're.
Be real and genuine love will find you.
Ladies please be careful!!! this days Many young men are desperate to become rich and famous without due process.
Anything you're unable to achieve today means something better than that will come for those that work and patiently wait for their seed to germinate, the law of nature work with time and season.
If to carry the latest phone in town is your problem use your brain and your two hands wisely and in no time you will achieve them.
Don't let anyone use material things to win your heart because *"All that glitters is not gold"*. when you are responsible in life no man can ever gather Courage to look down on you, if you need anything work hard to get it by yourself and stop running after men that matters with your common sense because you may be the next in line. Any man that's not your husband or husband to be, spending unnecessary money on you on daily basics from one hotel to another my dear quit the relationship if you can on time because he has no future plans for you. Most of them believes in their heart that you're not ready for marriage or competent enough. Men place high value on women that respect and value their integrity than those ones that jump from one hotel room to another with them. Please wake up from fake life and face the reality cause no man wants to marry a liability.
Hey! Young ladies, always remember that your mature is like when vegetable leaf is still fresh and new it attracts a lot of attention both those that wants to buy and those that wants to admire, but when the glory is taken by the sun a beautiful vegetable becomes so weak and unattractive leaf, the look can discourage someone that plan of making vegetable soup to change plans and the seller of the vegetable will reduce the price not to go back home with any remaining vegetable.
A girl in her twenties will reject a lot of suitors that she is not ready for a serious relationship, because she believe submitting to a serious young man will deny her a lot of privileges of hanging out with people that matters in the society. Not knowing that the life of a girl is like a vegetable leaf that attracts a lot of attention in the morning than evening.
don't waste your 20s in things that will not help you in future to avoid living a life of regret when 60% of your glory is taken by a strangers.
Valentine day is not a day for the unmarried ones to go to bed together but a day to pray to God together, a day to know each other better, plan future together, get each other a gift, show love to the less privileged together, play old-time Love music together that will explain to both of you what real love is all about together. A day to tell the world how beautiful it's to be with someone you love. A day to let each other know that true love comes with pain and pleasure. A day to let each other know that nobody is perfect but understanding and forgiveness is what both of you need to overcome some days. A day to tell each the truth that once married a lot of things has to be restructured" some friends has to be rejected in that stage, some lifestyle has to be denied, time spent on social media has to be limited, unnecessary spending has to be regulated, a day to let each other know that not everything that happens in your matrimonial home should be made available to your family, a day to let each other know that a tree cannot make a forest, both of you has a role to play to make the new home a very convenient place for each other, a day to let each other know that your will becomes his will and and his will becomes your will, a day to let each other know that marriage is not for babies, that it comes with rain and sunshine.
Love is beautiful but be ready to pay the price.
Things you should try avoid on your way to destiny.
💢.Wrong business partner.
💢.Wrong partner in relationship.
These two things determines what you're going to face tomorrow.
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1) When you're in a business transaction with a wrong partner two things will either happen to you.,either you loose your capital,or you loose your life because they can never remain faithful to the end of the tunnel.
2). When you married a wrong partner you may either loose your life, or Your body will receive an unforgettable Marks and unhealthy married life.
Watch and pray not to fall victim and if you're victimized don't relent to become a watchman over yourself.
Marrying a man that has the fear of God in his youth age and committed in his heavenly vision when his only responsibility is to Care for himself is good but if he lacks focus on things that physical being needs because of his eternal home.Both of you will fail as parents to your children and end up asking God questions that has no answer once parental reality hit both of you. The cry of your children to your heavenly father because of your lack of knowledge to act as a father can deny you of entering heaven. Don't be too righteous not to work because your heavenly father that you're losing focus on earthly duties to meet has made you to know that he will bless the work of your hands, Lazarus ended up as a tenant in Abraham's bosom in heaven because he failed to work as a man here on Earth and many destinies died because of his ignorant by limiting himself to a beggar, if you fail to create your own empire here on Earth you will not qualify to have your own mansion in heaven. Having your own empire on Earth is by being a responsible follower of Christ, being a Savior to others, given to motherless, fatherless and remain spotless as Christ was.
Man!!! as the receiver of submission, learn how to subdue until you depart to your eternal home.👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Woman!!! learn how to support your man because a tree cannot make a forest that is why God called you a helper and not a killer.
Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love the people who treat you right. Forget about those who don’t. Believe everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would most likely be worth it.”
― Harvey MacKay
Knowing that He or She is not perfect yet you prefer to build up with each other is better and healthier than waiting for an angel that will be perfect from head to toe will save you a lot of energy and you'll enjoy your young and old age with your partner in understanding.
Knowing that both of you are not perfect will give you the knowledge of correction and forgiveness.
No one is perfect.
No one has it all and
No one lacks it all.
Start with him or her cause no one is perfect and no one can ever be perfect.
Beautiful relationship is a study of unfinished work that has conceptual of daily continuation.
Men!! You must prepare yourself very well "Maturity wise" before marriage not to take some characters from your wife very serious, Because you're directly made from a perfect God and your woman is made directly from imperfect being through the help of perfect God. It takes a negative and positive wire to generate light, without creating woman from imperfect being law of attraction and feeling would've not exist. Every man is expected to be a Lord over his wife. when God came to the garden of Eden he knew that Eve was the first person to go against the law but because God has no business with the woman, He went directly to the man that he made the body of the parastatal to know who allowed the impersonator spirit to mislead the woman he gave to him as a helper to eat out of the forbidden fruit. And God discovered Eve was mislead because Adam was not close to her as God is close to a man. Don't let your life pursuit take you far away from your wife and children it will destroy you in future. Sometimes we get into trouble because we review too much of ourself to those whom profess to love us and we entrust them with all our secret as a closes friend not knowing they're on a mission,be careful cause the heart of a man is deceitful and desperately wicked.
To overcome the challenges of life.
1.Put all your trust in God because in a moments of weakness when your shadow will equally deny you He alone will understand and will be there for you.
2.Move with positive thinkers it will help you psychologically and physical well-being.
3. Control your emotions and be objective
4. Focus on what you can change and submit to those that has what it takes to change what you can not change cause all destiny needs a helper
5.Do not outshine your master even if you knows it all,Make them appear more brilliant than they are and you will attain the heights of power.
6.Learn from your mistakes so that you will not run the risk of repeating them.
7.Be persistent cause it William give you the ability to maintain action regardless of your feelings until you achieve your goals.
Your past is waiting for you in your future, any mistake done at the age of 18 will have a way to affect your life negatively at the age of 36,, in the Bible "if foundation be destroyed what can the righteous do" your today activities determines your tomorrow results"achievement.every wise farmer always reserve some of his product for next season, every mismanaged opportunity will leave you at the junction of what have I done to myself and well managed opportunities will bring you to a limelight and propel you to stand before men that matters in the society,, young youth please use the little opportunity you have now to prepare yourself well for master use tomorrow, youth age is not the time for clubbing, buying the most expensive jewelry to impress people but its time to invest the little money you have for future cause a time will come when you can no longer have the ability to work and that time is your old age.my dear young people time doesn't wait for anyone make use it your own now before it will be too late and you will end up becoming a gateman to your age mate or even to your son's age mate.always remember and tell others that there's Some mistakes that cannot be corrected in lifetime.
In the journey of life, learn how to be yourself and maintain your standard. Many people
are not ready to support or appreciate you when you got it right but are ever ready to be disappointed on you when real people are being disappointed over what they never expected from you.
Those that appreciate your good works has the right to be disappointed over your bad work but those that are waiting for you to fail before they'll display their immaturity has no right to be disappointed over anything because they has always been disappointed from the beginning of your progress.
To those that has been reading and encouraging the writer to put more effort" we're sorry for our last work but for those that has always been disappointed right from the beginning of our work.
We don't know what to say to una but be fine , we're making progress.Be careful with those friends of yours that will never tell you the truth of your life or rebuke you of your mistake but prefers to compromise your character, you've to isolate yourself🕴️ from them 👨👩👧👦immediately cause they're agent of destruction👿 and not what you thought they're. If they can't correct you then there's no need to connect with them, you're connected to them to be corrected in terms of decision making.
When your journey with someone becomes meaningless and causing you pains overnight, it's left for you to change and protect yourself, you can start another peaceful and meaningful journey with someone else but you can never find self once disvalued" don't take any drugs to hurt yourself over someone else misconclusion in your life.what you accept to be is what you are and not what they said you're.
Two people that will make you grow faster in destiny are your mother and your girlfriend that has future with you.
When a woman stand by you positively, life becomes easier but when a woman stands against you negatively your journey to destiny becomes header.
Be faithful to them and life will become fruitful to you.
Some of the pains you're going through and scars on your body doesn't came from enemies, They came from the ones that once said they love you.
Guide your heart and guide the information you share outside, life is far beyond facial appearance and smile on the face.
Taking a step you thought will end up in positive ways that ended in negative ways is far better than faking perfection that is eating you up on daily basis and makes you to appear as a helper to your helper and a role model to your role model.
It's better to start earlier with someone that's ready to build with you and grow with your children than building on your own and still end up late without having anything sustainable to bring to the table.
Listen! Two functionable head is better than one. having some experience early age will help you to become a better person in the society.
There's no perfect woman, untill you commit yourself faithfully as a man and not as a boy"a boy treat woman with option that soldier go soldier come while a man treat and see woman as a priority.
there's no perfect or weak man untill you commit yourself faithfully as a woman and not as a girl, a woman builds while a girl bills.
*Keep yourself busy and take care of your mind and body cause you can never change the nature neither can nature change itself.
*. Stay positive and live stress-less life cause what will be must surely be if the creator is behind the wave.
*.Stop overanalyzing situations that haven't even happened yet cause tomorrow will speak for itself but don't be too foolish to eat all you've gotten waiting for tomorrow to speak positive things into your status.
*. Stop focusing on what you don't have instead of what you have, what you've and value will pave way for you if well managed.
*. You can't give out what you don't have but you can use what you have to get what you want..e.g the earth and the clouds" Water vapor turns into clouds when it cools and condenses"that is, turns back into liquid water or ice.the earth gives to the clouds and the clouds gives back to the earth, what You've committed to yourself or to a rightful hands will generate back to you In different ways" positively or negatively.
*. Always thank God for what He has done in your life and stop complaining cause where you're today is someone else prayer point.
That you can move your hands, eat normal, bath yourself, step outside, watch home video's, call your family and friends, having someone or people that check on you and those you check on, is a big prayer points to millions of people out there. Be grateful and stop complaining.
*.You may not be the best but always strive to be the best in your field cause the mystery behind it is that you are better than Some people while some people are far better than you yet life goes on cause all fingers are not equal but they're all valuable. Someone that has bicycle is aiming to have a motorcycle, someone with motorcycle is aiming to have a car and someone with a car is aiming to have a private jet, while someone that doesn't have bicycle is praying to have a bicycle and someone that doesn't have legs to walk like the one that's aiming to have a bicycle is praying to have legs.
Don't jealous anyone, strive to be better in life cause where you're is many people's prayer points.
*.Learn how to appreciate other people's progress and if possible be their friend but never you ask them to dash or borrow you money, make yourself available to learn how they has been able to catch fish in an ocean and in the middle of the dry lands that others with resources has not been succeeding
*.Learn how to move with those that has cross the bridge That you are yet to cross cause experience is not cheap and you can never get it from cheap people.
If you live to please them, they will live to disappoint you.
If you live with a standard, they will strive to maintain your standard to be able to associate with you.when you maintain a standard in your life,men will pay a price to identify with you and still pay bigger price not to lose you.
When someone tells you that it's over,accept it because it has been over from the beginning before the confession.
Cry if you must, yet realize it ended for a reason.
Don’t place blame on yourself, Forgive yourself for waisting time with a confuse being.
Realize your worth and love yourself.
People can never see your worth if they have none themselves.
Engage yourself into something that brings you joy and dont dwell on the past.
Relationship without value will eventually end up without consideration,,Respect goes hand-in-hand with trust. And trust is the lifeline of any relationship (romantic or otherwise). Without trust, they can never be a sense of intimacy or comfort. Without trust, your partner will become a liability in your mind, things that are to be avoided will suddenly becomes a subject in your mind,without trust you can never built a healthy lifestyle in relationship,If there anything that's bothering you in your relationship, you're expected to be willing to reach out to your partner, speaking out your pains helps in building trust and trust builds intimacy. It may hurt, but you still need to do it. No one else can fix your relationship for you nor should anyone else do that for you.just as causing pain to your muscles allows them to grow back stronger and bigger ,often introducing some pain into your relationship through vulnerability is the only way to make the relationship stronger, they're hard things to do.And they’re even harder things to think about early in your relationship, ask yourself some questions and ask your partner some questions pertaining to futures plans, if you fail to do that now you may end up being a failure in time to come, many folks don't do that because they thought speaking out in relationship will make them to lose their partner,,,smile!! it doesn't work in that way, that has been the reason of many broken relationship and homes in our society because one has being trying to endure all the pains and not to speak out,,you must learn how to introduce trust at the beginning of your relationship and must always be ready to ask questions without the fear of "will you hurt him or her with your question cause trust on the process of building a trust it may hurts but if the person is seriously interested in your future, he or she will always be happy to explain things to you“
When there's a trust in your relationship you'll always be happy that you forgot your things in your partner house.....
Oh, I forgot my phone at his or her apartment, oh I trust him or her not to sell it and buy ice cream and shawarma with the money"trust"is there to defend itself,
And the deeper the commitment, the more intertwined your lives become, and the more you will have to trust your partner to act in your interest in your absence is the more you understand each other's weak point better cause God himself allowed man to act on his behalf and he observed their weak point that they don't have what it takes nor the blood of Bullock have the power to save humanity from Adamic nature and he has to come down in human form to perfect his plan over his creature by restoring the dignity of mankind that Adam lost in the garden of Eden by shedding his own blood at The Cross of Calvary.
Respect and trust is the key to a healthy relationship.
Things Positive People Do Differently.
1.positive people are men of perseverance that believes on" the end tells the means.
2.. Positive people don't dwell on failure
3. They are always busy doing something useful
4. They don't wait for change, they create it.
5. Positive people learn to let go
6. They don't wait for happiness, they create it
7. Positive people live in the present moment
8. They search for solutions
9. Positive people, never consider themselves as victims of circumstances
10. Positive people take responsibility for their actions and for their life.
11. They separate themselves from men of double mind.
12. They think beyond what if.
13. they're people of foresight.
14.their language is always different from others,, example "it's well,yea I can do it, no harm in trying and e.t.c
15. Positive people expect their plans to work out without the fear the unknown.
I STAND TO BE CORRECTED IF NECESSARY.
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Church wedding and court wedding is not biblical principles of marriage and it has made many African couples to become a debtor and even made some to sell their valuable properties just to meet up with the requirements to please people and to appear religious fulfilled.
Am not against anyone from taking total responsibility of his or her decision.
Decision of choice making is a freedom that has been granted right from the beginning of the world but knowledge is power, it makes you appear different among your kind.
Jesus only attended traditional wedding in his earthly days and right from the old testament, traditional wedding has been existing before white and court wedding" scriptural references ---Gen_30:20 And Leah said, God hath endued me with a good dowry ; now will my husband dwell with me, because I have born him six sons: and she called his name Zebulun.
Gen_34:12 Ask me ever so much dowry and [marriage] gift, and I will give according to what you tell me; only give me the girl to be my wife.
Exo_22:16 If a man seduces a virgin not betrothed and lies with her, he shall surely pay a dowry for her to become his wife.
Exo_22:17 If her father utterly refuses to give her to him, he shall pay money equivalent to the dowry of virgins.
1Sa_18:25 Saul said, Say this to David, The king wants no dowry but a hundred foreskins of the Philistines, to avenge himself of the king’s enemies. But Saul thought to make David fall by the Philistines’ hands. (This is King David paying dowry) Jacob wanted to marry, and the prescribed a procedure for him to pay a dowry which consisted of working for 7 years for each wife and After the years were completed, the women became his legally wife not somebody he was engaged to.what about father Abraham,the father of faith and friend of GOD? How did he get a wife for his son of promise? What did he consider as actual marriage ceremony? Gen 24:4 explains that better, he sent his oldest servant Eliezer of Damascus with a rich dowry to the girls’ family. In exchange for the dowry, he was given Rebecca to be taken to Isaac as wife which he did and succeeded getting her as a wife to His master's son, now What happened immediately Rebecca arrived at Isaac’s doorstep? The answer is found in Gen 24:64-67 . He took her into his mum’s tent and perfected the union which was started by the paying of a dowry by the servant.In Exodus_22:16 God himself explains that if a boy has pre-marital sex with a girl, in certain instances, he is to be forced to marry her..in some region if a girl got pregnant out of wedlock her parents will force both of them to marry each other and that helps in many ways.
1. It helps the younger ones to avoid sex outside marriage because no one will like to bring disgrace to his or her family.in Exo 22:16 in GOD’s own words is to pay the dowry. So even when GOD introduced the law through Moses he did not do away with the practice of dowries and the law is the shadow of the reality which is found in the New Testament Matthew 3:15.
What then is the reality?
1.Paying of dowry and the blessings of the girl’s family releasing her to the man that has done the necessary things that's required.
In traditional wedding the both parents of the new couples will bless their children by sanctifying them publicly as husband and wife to go and multiply" that their children will surround their table" handsome boys and girls.
There's nothing like for better for worse cause that's a course from a man made religion in Africa" white wedding.
In a traditional wedding the experienced parents of the both couples, will advice them to maintain their roles as days breaks out, the mother and father of the birde will say to their daughter to respect her husband, to see him as her father and husband,to feed him well and never deny him sex because it will make him to look outside, to remain calm when her husband is talking because men doesn't like to be disrespected and never to share her husband weakness to anybody outside because nobody is perfect, here come the mother to remind her that she has been married to their father for years not that he's perfect but because she knows that nobody is perfect and choose to remain salient whenever there's misunderstanding between them. Then the parent of the groom will advice him to take care of his wife and over look some actions, and provide for his family and never to keep late outsider the house, never to reject his wife food even if he's not hungry because it make women to think maybe their food is not good enough or someone somewhere is feeding home on his way back home and that thought can destroy a home, never to give anyone opportunity to insult his wife , never to share his wife weakness with family or friends, never to shout on her in public or lay his hands on her but always to correct her in love because a family that prayers together stays together.man if you don't have money for the so called white wedding and she's not ready to accept only traditional wedding then forget about her cause they're a lot of beautiful trees inside forest waiting for one that will even appreciate her beauty and allow her to bear his name as a married woman.
Ladies please accept him and go for the traditional wedding cause there's nothing you will do under the earth that is new so stop try to impress people cause marriage is not a day journey.
white wedding is another man's tradition wedding, in Africa we address oyibo as white people and that's why their traditional wedding is called white wedding and nothing more. while black wedding been the traditional wedding"is our own tradition because we're of black skin.and they name their own wedding after their skin color" white wedding"which is not scriptural.the only wedding that's scriptural is traditional wedding.i believe one day black will wake up and face the reality and stop accumulating things that are not necessarily.
Having a partner that trust you will make you to exercise your freedom of character without dying in silent because they know what you can do and not what people are bringing to their table as character report.
Thus is a great work u re doing bro.
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